Advice for Parents

Advice for Parents

All sports including rugby, should be a fun place for children to be. They are learning new skills, making new friends and enjoying being part of a team.

Scottish Rugby is committed to child protection and wellbeing. All our member rugby clubs are required to have a Child Protection Policy in place and appoint a Child Protection Officer. All Youth Coaches and volunteers in regulated work should be members of the PVG Scheme and Scottish Rugby ask for full compliance in this area.

A few things to consider when your child is joining any sports club:

  • Does the organisation have a Child Protection Officer – do you know who they are and how to contact them? Is it easy for your child to find out who this is too?
  • Does the club have a Child Protection Policy – is it on their website?
  • Does the club ensure that all appropriate coaches/volunteers join the PVG Scheme?
  • Have their coaches/volunteers gone through Child Protection training?
  • Do they take details from you on joining – medical/allergy information, next of kin, any special requirements, consent forms for things like photos of your child?
  • Do they have trained First Aiders?
  • Do they have social media policy for contacting young people?
  • Does your child enjoy their time at the club?
  • Are they happy to take parental feedback/answer your concerns?

It is also really important for parents to support their children:

  • Remember children play for their fun, not yours
  • Applaud all good play
  • Never ridicule a child for losing or making a mistake
  • Praise your child’s efforts, win or lose
  • Focus on the performance and not the result
  • Children learn best from good role models!
  • Don’t use bad language or allow others on the touchlines to use it either
  • Respect the decisions of the match officials